Today is my second wedding anniversary. On August 18, 2007 John and I got married in Southbury Connecticut. Athough we were living in Portland at the time, we chose CT as our wedding destination because I grew up there and my parents and brother and his wife live there. Both of our options involved destination weddings (John wanted to get married on the beach in Hawaii) but ultimately I won (doesn't the bride alwyas win?) because at least I had my mom and my sister-in-law to help me with planning in Connecticut. My mom went to see the venue and booked it for us and I chose the same DJ and photographer that Shari used. The time difference between CT and OR made it difficult to get in touch with venders and such because by the time I got out of work, places on the East Coast would already be closed. I actually got the most accomlished on one particular snow day because I was free to make phone call during the day. One drawback to being a teacher is that you cannot have any kind of personal life during working hours! It is impossible to make/take personal calls.
I like to think I was a very simple bride. When I came across something I liked, I went with it rather than agonzing over the details of each and every choice. I bought the first dress I tried on and do not regret that. I tried on three total, but #2 and #3 just confirmed that I loved the first one. I chose bridesmaid dresses from Ann Taylor online because my girls lived in different states and we could not go shopping together because they were all on the East Coast. My husband's grandmother loves yellow roses so that is what I chose for our table arrangments, cake, and boquets. I tried to keep in mind that a wedding day is very special, but it is just a day. All the details are not as important as the relationship and the love that are being celebrated.
John and I met in college at Villanova University in Pennsylvania. We lived in the same dorm freshman year, but we actually both disliked each other at first. We really got to know each other sophomore year and kind of dated, but it was not until fall of junior year that we truly became a couple and fell in love. I remember that John surprised me by taking me to New York City to see 42nd Street and that was when I realized how much I really cared about him. He put in so much effort to take me on a special date and he has not stopped spoiling me since.
We grew up with very different lifestyles and are polar opposites in many ways. John is American, but was born in Hong Kong and before high school he lived in Australia, Mexico, Korea, and Switzerland. His dad worked for Hewlett Packard (I bet you thought he was an Army brat, huh) and has a passion for international business which is why they moved around so much. John is outgoing, loves adventure, and is always willing to try something new.
I, on the other hand, lived in the same small town from when I was two until when I left for college. I am pretty shy in new situations, hesistant to try new things, and hold on to what is comfortable and familiar rather than gravitating towards the new and unknown. I love that I grew up with strong roots in a town that my parents had grown up in, in two different houses that my dad build with his own two hands (and mom helped design).
Needless to say, the saying that opposites attract was true in our case. It is blatantly obvious by the fact that I am writing this on my laptop from a hotel room in Germany, that John's pension for adventure has rubbed off on me. Never in a million years would I ever have imagined that I would live in Europe, yet here I am...and loving it so far. John has influenced my life in so many positive ways that I cannot even imagine where I would be without him. He always pushes me to go out of my comfort zone, to not be the turtle that hides in its shell, and to embrace what life has to offer. He is not only my husband, but my best friend, and my lobster (lobsters mate for life).
Here are a few photos from our wedding day.