Tomorrow is a LONG day of conferences followed by research class and all I can say is that I cannot wait for Friday afternoon at 4:30!!!
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
The Tough Ones
It is so hard to conference with parents when their child has a lot of need for improvement. I want to encourage parents to value learning and help their kids at home, but I struggle with communicating this without making parents feel like they are not doing enough. I want to have high expectations for their participation in the education of their child, yet I have faith that they are doing the best they can and the best they know how. I know that circumstances for some of the families I work with differ greatly from the circumstances I know and relate to. I want to be helpful and encouraging, but I think there is a fine line between being supportive and being preachy. I don't know from personal experience, but it must be so hard to be a parent. I hope they value the time we have to meet and understand that I have their children's best interests at heart!
Tomorrow is a LONG day of conferences followed by research class and all I can say is that I cannot wait for Friday afternoon at 4:30!!!
Tomorrow is a LONG day of conferences followed by research class and all I can say is that I cannot wait for Friday afternoon at 4:30!!!
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I agree with you and have been thinking the same thing. I have a kid who has a LOT of need this year- and I e-mailed the dad to set up a conference because he had not signed up for one... he said "I can not do a conference at the time." It took me 20 minutes to write an e-mail back because I was trying to get the point across that I will do it at basically ANY time he wants that the school is open but not pressure him to come if he feels like there is just no way he can...
I also agree that it must be so hard to be parent- which is why I don't want to do it yet haha. On the other hand, I've got a tough group of parents this year- so I'm feeling like it's really hard to be a teacher right now :)
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